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“Then said I (Jeremiah): ‘Ah, Lord God! Behold, I cannot speak, for I am a youth.’ But the Lord said to me: ‘Do not say, ‘I am a youth’” (Jeremiah 1:6-7).
There are many times I have sensed God say to me, “Steve, do not say THAT.” Here are some examples of things I am not to say:
Why do we say what we say? In my mentoring of people, one of the most important things I focus on is helping people become a student of their own words. If we can understand the beliefs behind the words we speak, then we are being set up for massive transformation.
“For we all stumble in many things. If anyone does not stumble in word, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle the whole body” (James 3:2). James says controlling our words will control our lives.
“Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks” (Matthew 12:34). Our words do indeed shine a light on what we believe. They will reveal what we believe about ourselves, others, the future, our nation, and whether we believe our prayers are being answered.
Let me be clear, I am not saying we should not share with others about the struggles we might be having, but we want to avoid concluding statements about our identity, our future, and about other people.
Now, let’s talk about I” have to” vs. “I get to.” “I have to” reflects a lack of attaching faith to what we are doing. It reveals an, “I am doing this out of duty or obligation” mindset rather than a mindset of significance and unlimited potential.
Faithfulness is not just showing up to do something, but it is showing up full of faith (faithful). Faithfulness is more of a mindset than outward action. Certainly, we need to learn to show up when we don’t feel like showing up, but the Kingdom of God is not moved forward by good conduct; it is moved forward by good beliefs (Galatians 3:1-5). What I believe is ultimately more important than what I do, and if I have good beliefs, I will see transformation in my actions and influence (Romans 12:2).
“I get to.” This simple switch from “I have to” will be catalytic for our growth. To consistently speak this out, we will be overcoming:
I bless you as you eliminate “I have to . . . “ from your life and replace it with “I get to . . . “ It changes things more than you might think.
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Steve Backlund is a prolific encourager, catalytic author, joy activator, and revivalist teacher. He brings transformational levels of hope to churches and organizations around the world. He is uniquely gifted to release hope, joy, and healthy leadership everywhere he goes.
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