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In India, farmers had problems with monkeys stealing their crops so they designed a trap to catch them. They would tie a coconut to the side of a tree, cut a small hole inside the coconut and place a banana within the hole. When a monkey would smell the banana, it would stick its hand inside the hole to grab the fruit, but the hole was too small to let the monkey get both its hand and the banana out. Unwilling to let go of the banana, the monkey would stay in the same spot until it got caught.
In the same way, we can sometimes refuse to let go of things that are not good for us.
Here are five things that are not worth holding onto:
1.The need to always be right – We can be right with the facts but completely wrong in our attitude or in our timing. The Pharisees were technically right in bringing the woman caught in adultery to Jesus, but they were totally wrong in the heart behind the action. Here are some habits that can help us let go of our need to be right:
2. Being isolated – Elijah was alone in a cave in 1 Kings 19. Isolation tends to cause us to be delusional in our thinking as it did with Elijah. It also increases the likelihood of developing harmful habits and addictions. 1 John 1:7 gives us the motivation to come out of the cave of isolation. It says “But if we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin.” As we spiritually connect with others, it will catalyze victory for us. Here are some ideas for how to let go of isolation:
3.The need to keep things the way they are – Again, the Pharisees could not embrace Jesus and the new season he represented because they were more focused on preserving the past. The fear of change blocks many from being a part of what God is doing now. Here are some ways to increase the likelihood of embracing the good, new things in life:
4. Wrong definitions of success – Success is not a goal to be attained, but it is a state of being. If we need anything outward to cause us to believe we are successful, then we really aren’t successful. Great leaders become successful in their beliefs before they become successful externally. Here are some keys to help you let go of wrong definitions of success:
5.Preconceived ideas of what God is going to do – In 2 Kings 5, Namaan was angry because Elisha did not do what he expected in prescribing healing for his leprosy. The Pharisees (and pretty much everyone else) missed the Messiah because He did not come as expected. Here are some practices to help us let go of the preconceived idea mindset:
Let’s not “monkey around” by holding on to things that restrict our victory and influence. Instead, let’s ask God to help us let go of the things we need to let go of.
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Steve Backlund is a prolific encourager, catalytic author, joy activator, and revivalist teacher. He brings transformational levels of hope to churches and organizations around the world. He is uniquely gifted to release hope, joy, and healthy leadership everywhere he goes.
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